bedtime
routine

By 12 months, many babies will sleep through the night. If yours isn't yet, you will be keen for him to start. Establishing a consistent bedtime routine will help your toddler get to sleep - and stay asleep - so that everyone wakes up refreshed.

routine benefits
How you bring up your child is a very personal choice. However, developing routines is recoginsed as an important factor in your little one's development. From napping and feeding to bath-time and sleeping, establishing a routine pattern of behaviour helps your toddler to understand that there are some certainities in this ever changing world, giving him a sense of structure and security. It also helps you order your day and makes key daily events, such as feeding and bathing, run more smoothly.
Try to establish a pre-bedtime patterneach night so that your toddler gets toknow when bedtime is approaching.
step by step to sleep
The process of getting your little one to feel sleepy and ready for bed starts well before bedtime. If he still has two extended sleeps during the day, try reducing it to one, but avoid letting him nap well into the afternoon or he may still be wide awake by bedtime.

Try to establish a pre-bedtime pattern each night so that your toddler gets to know when bedtime is approaching. A simple routine could be supper, followed by a bath with some bathtime play with bath toys. Establish a good routine of brushing his teeth too. Make it a fun game, rather than a battle, and reward him with praise and stickers for cleaning teeth properly each time. He’ll love to copy you too, so let him see you brush your teeth every evening and make it a family activity.
If you are breastfeeding ask your partnerto settle your child if he wakes up duringthe night so that your child cannot smellyour milk and demand a feed
After bathtime, keep him calm and enjoy a quiet wind-down period together, looking at story books or singing lullabies. Set a time when your child goes to bed and stick to it – further reading and lullabies can follow once he’s in bed to help soothe him to sleep.

Your toddler will eventually get into a good sleeping pattern, and your own sleepless nights will seem like a distant memory. Speak to your health visitor if you have any further concerns.
sweet dreams
If you rocked or breastfed your young baby to sleep, they may find it hard at first to settle. If they start crying when you put them down, resist the urge to go back immediately. If the crying gets worse after a few minutes, go in with as little fuss as possible, comfort your child then leave them again. Persevere. If you approach the task with confidence your baby will sense it and will soon feel secure and ready to settle. Bedtime stories, soft books and a few favourite (safe) toys or teddies in the cot will help distract him until sleep comes.
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