you and

your baby

So, your partner’s gone back to work and
the babymoon’s officially over, you may be
feeling a little daunted, but don’t worry – it
takes time to adjust to your new life.
Get to know your health visitor - in the early months she’ll be
a fantastic resource. As well as checking your little one’s
development, she’s your link to a whole world that it pays to
become part of. Go as often as you can to the baby-weighing
clinics and breastfeeding groups. You’ll get advice and
reassurance that you’re both doing well, and you’ll get to
meet other new mums living nearby.
get some fresh air
Until you’ve had your six-week check (eight weeks in some
areas), you won’t be given the all-clear to do any proper exercise.
You can still push the pushchair though, and it’s a good idea to
get some fresh air on a daily basis. Try shopping locally every
day - as well as being more environmentally friendly, your body
will benefit from the walking.
grab some me time
Much as you love cuddling your baby, it’s a good idea to invest in a bouncing cradle so you can put
her down even when she's awake for a few minutes. They are suitable from birth and come with
straps, so she’ll be secure, and many have toys and rocking or vibrating motions. Just be careful
not to overuse it, and never leave your little one unattended.
have everything ready for a quick getaway
It takes time to adjust to having another person to get ready for the outdoors. Have your
changing bag permanently stocked and ready to go by the front door, and practice putting the
pushchair up and down on your own before your partner goes back to work.
If you find you’re missing adult company, why not catch up with everyone from your antenatal
course? The same goes when you meet other new mums at the baby clinic - don’t be shy
about suggesting a coffee, as they're probably feeling just the same.

as well as
checking your
little one's
development,
your health
visitor is your link to a whole world that it pays to become part of

survival tips
Nap whenever the baby does. Dirty dishes can wait. You need to recover from the delivery and cope with night feeds.   Request that visitors phone ahead and keep their stay brief. The baby will soon get tired even if you don’t. Ask friends to bring a meal, do a little shopping or help around the house.   Try doing your grocery shopping online.   Don’t compare yourself with other mums or celeb mums! Give yourself some credit and don’t be too hard on yourself in the early weeks of parenting.